We were at the lake a couple of weekends ago with our friends, and had just returned to the boat dock and were getting ready to eat. Matthew had taken off his life jacket, and I guess we were all too busy to be thinking clearly about the fact that we were right next to the water and he should probably still have a life jacket on. I don't know what got my attention, but all of a sudden, I noticed Zack was down on his stomach on the dock dragging a drowning Matthew out of the lake!! Matthew had been playing with a rope and backed up just a bit too far, and IN HE WENT! Thankfully, Zack was right there and heard him go in, because it was right next to the boat and Matthew would have been hard to see between the boat and the dock if we didn't know he'd gone in! And when little ones go in, they have a hard time getting their mouth back up above the water to make any noise, so he so easily could have drowned right there next to us, and we wouldn't have known- and now I'm crying again! It's a hard thing to think about. At the time, I was so shaken up, that I started having trouble breathing and my legs gave out. I had to sit down on the dock for a few minutes, and even then it took quite awhile for my legs to stop shaking! I am so thankful for Zack's quick actions, but I'm even more thankful for the angels that God has sent us to protect this wonderful, amazing, trouble-finding child!!!
Meet Matthew...
King of all three-year-old-tyrants! His name means "Gift of God," and we chose it very carefully for its meaning. We were blessed with Matthew after my husband underwent a vasectomy reversal (he had a vasectomy after our 5th child was born, and then we decided we weren't quite done), and many months of trying to conceive.
Matthew is, as they say, "all-boy!" Add to that strong-willed and extremely mischievous, and you have a never-ending list of "Matthew Moments" to choose from on any given day. We recently went to see the movie "Marley & Me," and we spent the next several days calling Matthew "Matthew-Marley." If you've seen the movie or read the book, you now know Matthew. He IS our Marley! Matthew gets into so much trouble that I now take him everywhere I go (to include the toilet, shower, laundry room, etc.) and no longer feel comfortable leaving him home with my teenage daughters or even my husband. Zack (my husband) lost my faith when he took Matthew with him to run errands and Matthew ended up decorating the inside of my oldest daughter's brand new car with desitin. The only time I can relax is when Matthew is in his highchair or sleeping, and I'm sad to say that I rejoice in those moments. Honestly, I start every day off with a prayer for Matthew- just that he will survive the day. At this point, I firmly believe that my job as his mother is just to keep him alive!
After hearing some of our "Matthew" stories, a friend jokingly said that Matthew is our "gift of patience" from God! In honor of our precious boy, I am keeping a blog just for our "Matthew moments," and I am dedicating it to all those out there who have come before me with their "Matthews!" Please enjoy and leave comments!!! I will update with the "latest moments" as often as I can!
Matthew is, as they say, "all-boy!" Add to that strong-willed and extremely mischievous, and you have a never-ending list of "Matthew Moments" to choose from on any given day. We recently went to see the movie "Marley & Me," and we spent the next several days calling Matthew "Matthew-Marley." If you've seen the movie or read the book, you now know Matthew. He IS our Marley! Matthew gets into so much trouble that I now take him everywhere I go (to include the toilet, shower, laundry room, etc.) and no longer feel comfortable leaving him home with my teenage daughters or even my husband. Zack (my husband) lost my faith when he took Matthew with him to run errands and Matthew ended up decorating the inside of my oldest daughter's brand new car with desitin. The only time I can relax is when Matthew is in his highchair or sleeping, and I'm sad to say that I rejoice in those moments. Honestly, I start every day off with a prayer for Matthew- just that he will survive the day. At this point, I firmly believe that my job as his mother is just to keep him alive!
After hearing some of our "Matthew" stories, a friend jokingly said that Matthew is our "gift of patience" from God! In honor of our precious boy, I am keeping a blog just for our "Matthew moments," and I am dedicating it to all those out there who have come before me with their "Matthews!" Please enjoy and leave comments!!! I will update with the "latest moments" as often as I can!
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
did I ever tell you about the time.....
that this cute little kid fell in the lake? NO? Well, that's probably because I'm still a bit shaken up over the whole thing! Here's the story....
We were at the lake a couple of weekends ago with our friends, and had just returned to the boat dock and were getting ready to eat. Matthew had taken off his life jacket, and I guess we were all too busy to be thinking clearly about the fact that we were right next to the water and he should probably still have a life jacket on. I don't know what got my attention, but all of a sudden, I noticed Zack was down on his stomach on the dock dragging a drowning Matthew out of the lake!! Matthew had been playing with a rope and backed up just a bit too far, and IN HE WENT! Thankfully, Zack was right there and heard him go in, because it was right next to the boat and Matthew would have been hard to see between the boat and the dock if we didn't know he'd gone in! And when little ones go in, they have a hard time getting their mouth back up above the water to make any noise, so he so easily could have drowned right there next to us, and we wouldn't have known- and now I'm crying again! It's a hard thing to think about. At the time, I was so shaken up, that I started having trouble breathing and my legs gave out. I had to sit down on the dock for a few minutes, and even then it took quite awhile for my legs to stop shaking! I am so thankful for Zack's quick actions, but I'm even more thankful for the angels that God has sent us to protect this wonderful, amazing, trouble-finding child!!!
We were at the lake a couple of weekends ago with our friends, and had just returned to the boat dock and were getting ready to eat. Matthew had taken off his life jacket, and I guess we were all too busy to be thinking clearly about the fact that we were right next to the water and he should probably still have a life jacket on. I don't know what got my attention, but all of a sudden, I noticed Zack was down on his stomach on the dock dragging a drowning Matthew out of the lake!! Matthew had been playing with a rope and backed up just a bit too far, and IN HE WENT! Thankfully, Zack was right there and heard him go in, because it was right next to the boat and Matthew would have been hard to see between the boat and the dock if we didn't know he'd gone in! And when little ones go in, they have a hard time getting their mouth back up above the water to make any noise, so he so easily could have drowned right there next to us, and we wouldn't have known- and now I'm crying again! It's a hard thing to think about. At the time, I was so shaken up, that I started having trouble breathing and my legs gave out. I had to sit down on the dock for a few minutes, and even then it took quite awhile for my legs to stop shaking! I am so thankful for Zack's quick actions, but I'm even more thankful for the angels that God has sent us to protect this wonderful, amazing, trouble-finding child!!!
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